We often talk about boundaries for young parents, but we rarely talk about boundaries for grandparents. Especially for those of us who’ve always seen family as a place where love means doing—constantly doing.
But I’ve come to understand that setting boundaries isn’t rejection. It’s a form of respect. It’s what allows love to breathe.
Now, I check in before offering help. I ask how she’s doing, and more importantly, I ask how much involvement she wants. Some days she wants company. Other days, she just wants rest.
And I honor that.
What Appreciation Really Looks Like
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